‘How can you have any pudding if you don’t eat yer meat?’

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Normally, I write about something on my mind.  Well, this is no different except it has nothing to do with relationships or loving yourself or anything like that really.  It does have to do with love and compassion though.

It hit me, I think it was last Saturday.  I was watching one of the last episodes of Victorian Farm on the BBC.  If you are not familiar with the show, I reccomend it.  Briefly, there are 2 men and 1 female completely immersing themselves in life as it would have been in Victorian times.  Clothes, way of life, farm, you name it.  They had sheep, pigs, chicken…you get the jist.

The Show was coming to an end, so it was time to decide what to do with the animals.  A hearder came to pick up the sheep & ram and another farmer came to pick up the sow and her piglets.  They also had 3 Tamworth pigs as well.  Two were to be sold and the other was to be lead to slaughter.

Normally, in the past, I have had no major issues with eating meat, my biggest concern was the way that the ‘meat’ was treated.  Be it cow, chicken, turkey, ect. I’m sure you have all seen the horrible documentaries.  So, I had resigned myself only to eating Organic and/or Grass-fed meat.  And, wow, is it delicious.  An organic burger cooked slowly over hickory woods chips out on my mini-deck was one of the best times I had all summer (my girlfriend also happened to be in from out of town, so it made it all  better).  Grass fed, organic was to be the only way for me.

Until Victorian Farm and those cute, rotund, red haired Tamworth pigs.  The two Tamworth’s were off, off to a different life.  Off to live, if nothing else.  The 3rd Tammy, he was let out of the pen.  Jumping with giddiness, with happiness, with joy to be free and to roam and eat and be a messy pig.  Clear the fields, wallow in mud, oink till his heart’s content!  But it was not to be.  I don’t know why, but that scene continues to play in my head, over and over and over again.  I cannot shake it.  I can see the little fella let out, jumping, kicking up his hind legs, running around, I can feel his happiness, his joy.  Then, he & his joy both were gone.  Just like that, a life was cut short.

Why must we kill an animal, a beautiful creature to consume their meat?  Why must we cut the lives short of so many animals?  For your own pleasure?  That piglet’s life was cut short.  Not because these men were starving and would have otherwise perished, but because it was the way things had been done in the past.  Kill or be killed, right?  Wrong.  Fight or flight right?  Again, wrong.

We, as humans, have the capacity to chose right from wrong.  And we no longer live in a world where it is kill or be killed, eat or be eaten.  No, not any longer.  So, why do we pretend we do?  Why have we no compassion for the animals?  I am sure most people have all seen, if not at least heard, of the atrocities that go on behind closed door at meat factories.  Yet, we persist in eating animals DNA (which I have come to realize has a profound effect on our own DNA), we insist on the best slab of meat, or bacon at breakfast.  I, personally, will miss bacon.  But what is there to miss?  A sensation of taste? The smell of maple throughout the house? A quick bit of pleasure?  At what cost?  No, I will not miss bacon.  I will miss the idea of bacon, the idea of a ham sandwich, steak dinner or juicy burger.

What will I gain, you may be asking yourself?  Peace.  That is the answer, my answer.  My decision to stop consuming meat is personal, I would never force my beliefs on others.  However, I do want people to see if from the point of view of the animal, if  possible.  Imagine these animals as ‘pets’ if it helps.

I know there will be many people who say ‘well Vegetarian’s aren’t healthy.  They are lacking these essential nutrient’s which are only found in meat. ‘ or, my argument used to be ‘Scientists say that it is largely due to the fact that we began to consume meat which lead to the development of the neocortex.’  That may be true.  My neocortex, however, is and has been developed.

In short, I would like to simply say Think twice.  Think twice before you eat the flesh of another of Mother Nature’s creatures.  Think twice before you lower your own vibrations by consuming dead meat.  Think, think of the little Tamworth pig, happy, full of life and full of love.  Just Think.

On Loving yourself

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“Because I think I’m gross.”  Why?  Why would a gorgeous, intelligent, sexy, fun loving, caring, giving young woman in her prime say such a thing?  Not because shes ‘gross’, no for I love this woman with all that I am.  No, it’s because she is overweight.  And honestly, who cares!  Those that love you do so for everything that you are.  Even the extra 5-10, or however-many, pounds!  And those that Judge you, love them.  All that  matters is Happiness & Love.  If you cannot be happy with who you are and how you look you will never love yourself.  If you can never love yourself you can never be loved, fore you will feel unworthy.  And to not experience love may be the greatest Tragedy of them all.

People who judge are, by and large, afraid.  They are people who harbor fear in their hearts.  Fear of themselves becoming overweight, fear of judgement, fear they won’t get that promotion or that Personal Parking Space they’ve had their eyes on.  Fear is the root of all evil.  Without fear, there can be no evil.  Without evil, what a wonderful world it would be.

So, why do so many of us have a Negative self image?  Why, instead of loving who we are, what we are and where we are do we chose to hate who we are, never understand what we are and constantly want to be somewhere else?  Why can’t we just be happy loving ourselves for Who we are?

To start with, I believe Introspection can help.  I have written a post about Introspection and its importance, it can be found here.  I will write a follow-up to that soon as well.

Introspection is the self-observation and reporting of conscious inner thoughts, desires and sensations.  (per wiki)

Another definition is simply  Constantly asking yourself Why.  Why am I unhappy?  Is it my job?  My house?  My car?  Is it Me?  If it is my job, what can I do about it?  If it’s me (heaven forbid!) what can I start to do Today to make changes?  Is it something in my past?  Am I holding onto something I should release and let go of?

This is not an easy process.  On the contrary, it can be very difficult.  Especially as you start asking yourself the hard questions.  Questions you are sure you know the answers too, yet don’t want to hear.  Emotions will be brought up, and it is important not to suppress them.  They are important in the process of forgiveness and moving forward.  Cry, laugh, giggle, scream, hollar, hoot, do whatever you have to.  Do whatever feels right.

I despise thieving.  To the core of my being, it bothers me.  Often at work I find that food will come up missing.  Drinks will be drunk.  That sort of thing.  And it has always bothered me, worse than a bother really, it’s a thorn in my side.  I never really thought much about it as, well, stealing is wrong.  Duh.

One day, it hit me.   I had not yet forgiven myself for my past actions.  You see, I used to steal.  I used to steal a lot.  I was lost then.  Boy, was I lost.  I was looking for acceptance where ever I could find it.  Stealing, lying, cheating…anything to gain acceptance.  How young, dumb and full of…ambition.   I, like us all, must embrace my past, not hide it, forget about it, hate it and try to bury it.  Emotions are often brought to the surface, not necessarily to make us relive the pain, but to make us confront the pain.  To allow us to confront ourselves.  ”It’s OK.  I forgive you and I love you.  It’s OK.  I love you. It was not your fault.  You did everything you could, ect…”  This is how the process of forgiving oneself starts.  From here, who knows.  The next steps are up to the individual.  I think it best to understand first, and then let the questioning begin.  How can you question yourself about your issues if you are unsure of what they are?

And, as always, remember the love and light in your own life.  Remember the ones who have always been there for you.  Remember the ones who are there to lend a hand when needed.  Remember the good in everyone, for we all have good in us.  Sometimes it’s just buried, lost, confused, misunderstood, or just looking for acceptance.

Be yourself, no matter what they say.

~Sting; Englishman in NY 

What can we do?

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In these trying times, what can we do?  Occupy this, and that.  Occupy here and there, hell Occupy Everywhere!  Change is in the air.  Our own government deploying 20,000 troops in our Country.  In a time where peaceful protestors are ridiculed, beaten, pepper sprayed and treated like animals while the Rich sip champagne and receive bigger and bigger salaries.  What are we to do?

We start by stopping.  Stop reading the news.  Stop reading about the most recent ‘terrorist’ threat.  Stop reading about the TSA abusing their powers.  Stop reading about the people in wheel chairs who have been tossed out of their chair by law enforcement officials.  When we read this upsetting news it changes us.  And not for the better.

It changes our vibrational frequency to one of fear.  And what do we know about Fear?  We hate it.  Hate (and Fear) can change a person in an instant.  Don’t believe me?  Ever look forward to something?  Ever?  Ya, I’m sure you have.  We all have.  And when we have something to look forward to Life can be seemingly wonderful, right?  Daisy’s and Roses everywhere.  We are positively Glowing.  Then, you get word.  It’s not happening.  You’d been planning for it for 6 months.  All the details were taken care of, I’s were dotted and T’s were crossed.  And none of that matters.  It’s not happening.  You are Not going on that Vacation.  You are Not going to see your long distant lover after months apart.  You are not going to be able to drive for the rest of your life.

In an instant our lives can be turned from Happy go Lucky to Sadly go Sulking.  These instants change us greatly.  And we can all sense it.  We can feel it.  We just have to pay attention.  Focus as your heart beat rises.  Faster and faster.  You breathing becomes labored and shallow.  In, out, in, out, in out, quick like. Trying to catch the next breath before it’s ready.

So, you may be thinking, well so what?  So it makes me upset?  Fight or flight right?  Well, not exactly.  As humans we have a Choice on how we act and it’s not always Fight or Flight.  We have the ability to plan for the future, to see the consequences of our actions before they even happen.  Yet, at times we ignore this.   And not only that.  Because you are angry, hatful, upset, your vibrational energy will be picked up by the being closest to you.  And like a domino effect, we all affect each other.  Ever hear ‘Misery loves company’?  Because Misery likes the similar vibrational pattern!  Ever heard ‘I just get a bad vibe from him/her.’?  That is exactly it!  We all have the ability to pick up on the vibrations around us.  All of us.  We have simply forgotten.  How?  We’ll save that for another time, with more room to write!

Read the headlines, sure.  Get an idea for what is happening out there.  Normally though, the headlines are enough.  Do we really need to know the details of how the home of a family of 5 was burnt to the ground, mother survived only because she jumped out a window? Surely we do not.  Stick to the headlines, I find its more than enough information for me; at least when negativity is a concern.

What can we do then?  For the Occupiers who need our help, for the homeless, the unemployed, for those of us who have lost their way?  First off, can you help them?  Are you one of the fortunate few who can help others in a financial way?  Have an extra tent?  Extra blankets?  Extra food?  If you answered yes, then do what you can.

For the rest of us who are living paycheck to paycheck, we can help also.  We can send them love.  It is free of charge.  Everyone can do it.  And it’s easy.  Sit down.  Concentrate.  (I am going to refrain from calling this Meditation)  Think of a person or a group of persons.  Then see yourself as a beautiful bright ball of light a light so strong it can reach anyone who you think of.  Then send your White Light to all that you can.  Mentally tell them that you Love Them and that they are strong.  And do this not only for those you care about and love, do it for those you loathe, for those that stick in your side for whatever reason.  Mentally connect and tell that person, in turn yourself, that you love them.  That you are Sorry for whatever has happened, and over and over ‘I Love You, it’s ok.  I am sorry’.  Let them know that they possess all they need to be the Person they want to be.  Love thy enemy.  Why?  Not because it is difficult, no.  But because it is the right thing to do.  If you hate someone, harbor ill will towards someone, or are jealous of someone, you are only holding yourself back and holding the other person down.  These emotions are energy and get all trapped up in the wrong spots.  We must learn to be Free of hate and Love One Another.  This is the only way.

As per my usual, I start writing about one thing and end up in a field 3 acres over.  In summation:  Love is the answer.  The news is NOT something we all need to be ‘up to date’ on.  If we want to know why we are where we are today we must study The Past, not the present.  For those that do not understand and know History are doomed to the same fate.

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